I have been thinking my last post really gives the impression I dont listen. I understand I need to stop trying to save my M and move the focus towards me and my changes. What I meant to ask is when you want to stay strong in the hope for the best and at the same time need to lovingly detach and let WAW go. I have my list of GAL activities and I try to stick to them but I mean in terms of how to view your past R, think about the one you would ideally like to develop and how to healthy cut the interactions and stop being a plan B for WAW.
Would it be more helpful if I row in the opposite direction? Should I put extra emphasis on meeting women as many friends have recommended?
On occasions like tomorrow (S1 BD party) should I share some video/pics with W or not?
Thank you all for your help! I am listening, I fear I am still emotionally a big mess at the moment but I will pick myself up.
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19