You are absolutely right, there is generally a lot said , but not many actions. He was meant to come and discuss the divorce, monay and kids on monday, and no more mention in this. He knows thats its not practical, he works full time, only free time he has is after 6pm! And weekends. Well kids will be at school from September and they are generally asleep by 7.30pm! So go figure how he is planning to make this work.

Honestly i have let him go, i dont ask,i don't participate, we communicate about children and sometime he will ask gow my day was at work. Thats pretty much the extent of our conversations. He no longer come to see the boys in the evenings, i have managed to oin him down to have the boys on thursdays for the next couple of weeks and fridays. If i didnt enforce this he would be happy to come on sundays and thats it. I dont know whats going on in his life but its far from happy.

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