Can i just say this is amazing. Although i have outlined my story, in actually living life! I have started horse riding, something i have put off for ages, in happy on my own, because in not constantly affected by his bad day at work etc. My relationship with my kids is much better, they do t stop telling me how much they love me. We have fun, enjoy life, i have become much closer to his family, as he chooses to ignore them.
I dont think he is that interested in having the kids, they are hard work for him, and he is quiet happy to come round to the house on Sunday and spend a bit of time with them.
We do have one major problem, and that is that the kids dont know anything and he keeps telling them that he just has to work a lot at the moment and i cant seem to pin him down to have a conversation around how and whT we will tell the kids. And thats where my problem with him dragging the kids to meet her comes in, kids will just be confused!
