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[Gordie]

Taz,

Just read through your situation and you sound like you are doing well with you and your sons.

My w too remembered and brought up things (with resentment) from many, many years ago. And also said she was just "tired" of pretending that everything was okay and that the marriage had been bad for many years (without mentioning it to me).

It is surprising how nice your w is to you on the occasions that you are together and her continued desire to go to church together. You are the only other person I remember on here that had a w like me who imaged that after the end of the R, we would still be one big happy family (even if she was in a relationship with someone else).

Best wishes. Is school re-opening for your boys or are they going to be online/remote?