Living with a WAS/MLC husband...who does not care

[BlueSea]

Thanks Steve - IC for me, yes, soon - I know I am mad and it would just be a waste. I need to take some time for myself to simmer.

Thanks Alison for visiting again - I hear your concern - there are so many things on the table to deal with that I get overwhelmed. It will not be forgotten, it will be dealt with. It really is a delicate balance of moving forward, healing, discussing awful things, reaching out, turning towards, being patient because I see him trying.

Today was a good day overall - I saw actions (sized in H portions but actions). He is reading a book called 'out of the doghouse'. It was shared via family amazon and what I read, seems good.

I have no expectations - he could turn on a dime and take off in the middle of the night to be with her, or just decide he is done - and that would be tough - but what I can say is that I have done ALL I could, I can check the box on this and don't regret any of it.