Needing to pull a last resort 3

[Mumin]

So, my EW gave our D3 laundry detergent to play with last night. Just straight up handed it to her and told her to take it to the other room.

Thankfully, she came right to where I was and I took it away from her. When I took it back to my EW, she just said, "What? She wanted to play with it."

When I said I would rather she not play with it, because I didn't want her to possibly drink it or anything, she said, "She knows not to drink it. She even said she wouldn't."

I really do not like that I won't be able to keep more of an eye on my daughter once I am out of the house.

IMO you should report this (depending on consequences where you live). Your D could have been severely hurt!
AT LEAST write it (and everything else she has done) down, including some details and a date. (i do this)
It can help you with custody, especially if something were to ever go wrong.


And like ovr said. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, man up and get what you need to do done.