To add to your list, I would suggest that you can't really go any further with him until he takes total responsibility - verbally and with follow up actions (like registering at a domestic violence and sex offenders treatment programme) for the worst of his behaviour towards you. I'd also be looking for him to be paying back any money he stole.
I think your decision not to go to MC until he is taking responsibility for his abuse is a very very wise move on your part.
Agreed, though I do think some of that could be worked through and done in MC sessions.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
