I realize that I cannot nice him back. I realize 100% that his "amicable" settlement offer is manipulation to the core. He swings widely like stating he wants $2200 of the $6800 I took from joint accounts... to then telling me he isn't sweating it and that we can say from this point forward our banking accts have been settled to threatening to not pay the timeshare or car... to going back to paying it. That if I just get this done as it without him needing an attorney it will all be amicable.
^^^I see the manipulation on his end.
The call made my life easier in not having to text or email. I ultimately didn't want to have to write out a long text/email.
This is why he wants nothing in writing. And why you should want EVERYTHING in writing. Do not for a minute put past him standing in front of a judge and saying "I tried for weeks to get her to take all of this documentation and she wouldn't move anything forward."
It happens all the time. This is why by the end of a D proceeding spouses that were amicable absolutely loathe and despise each other. If you think he could be petty and insolent over things like motorcycles and boats, just wait until you get into court and are talking about 10s of 1000s of dollars.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
