You seem to go back and forth on this, you said the two of you were going to settle this amicably and that he was being very generous, and that you didn't want to rock the boat to screw that up. But now you are saying he's living in fantasy land and isn't going to like your attorney's numbers. Can you just explain this a little better? It doesn't make any sense, it's like you're telling two completely different versions.
So H filled out this paperwork before on his own to give to his "free" atty. I never saw the finished paperwork and never had a copy of it. H has never provided a copy. So, it has to be filled out again. Hence why I had to call to request documents.
The flipping back and forth is all H. In the last phone call he realized the number he calculated in his head was not offset by the $25k that did not belong to either of us. He got a little sassy when that was brought to his attention.
As far as amicable EVERYTHING has been divided in his head outside a number from the retirements accounts - his and mine. He is probably not going to like that number even if its a fair number.... IDK.
As for things being weighted heavily in my favor - he has stated not to touch the equity in my home, he is paying off the car that my son drives, etc. NOW, is it really in my favor? IDK as atty has not looked at the numbers and given me her opinion.
