Cut down on drinking / He has stopped drinking all together Stop taking testosterone Make efforts via verifiable actions (initiate activities like biking, walking, meander type trips) Engage with me (talk to me kindly! start conversations) Counseling (individual) Transparency (answer questions, offer up more info, phone access)
Definitely suggest more if this list seems light. I have no idea on what to do to make this marriage ship move forward. I am trying find an online program for ideas, potentially one by Gottman - he is here in Seattle, checking for upcoming workshops. And there is a Retrovaille (sp?) here in October, which I have heard is really good.
I see you are requiring IC. Is in it? And why is MC not also part of the requirements here?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
