He was pissed to realized that he may owe me another $15k... immediately went to I'm trying to screw him over. He knows exactly what my atty is doing blah blah blah.
OK so you said you called him to request additional paperwork, I get that part of it. But what's up with the 15k, apparently you disclosed to him in the phone call that he will owe you more in the settlement? I thought you said he was already being overly generous in the settlement.
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I remained calm and let him rant. It took a lot of self control not to yell back "you screwed me over dude... you screwed me out of my financial security and now every time I have to deal with you I have to hear additional threats"... but I said nothing.
Just keep in mind that in D no one is "made whole". Both parties are going to leave the R with less than they had jointly, that's just how D works. I understand the anger but I'm sure he feels equally screwed in this.
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He complained that he already filled out this paperwork once. I just responded "you're right you did".
Why did you request it again then?
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BUT I FEEL SO GROSS. Perhaps because I could feel his extreme dislike of me. ALL I can say is that he probably isn't going to happy with the numbers my atty gives him. He is living in fantasy land.
You seem to go back and forth on this, you said the two of you were going to settle this amicably and that he was being very generous, and that you didn't want to rock the boat to screw that up. But now you are saying he's living in fantasy land and isn't going to like your attorney's numbers. Can you just explain this a little better? It doesn't make any sense, it's like you're telling two completely different versions.
