Hi CW, Nice to see you checking in on me. Overall, I'm avoiding non logistics interactions as much as possible now however if a conflict does come up, I do intend to handle them with some enhanced validation. Cant say ill always be able to. If I'm not, Im going to either try brushing things off, or avoiding/leaving the situation.
We all know myself or my counselor cannot diagnose someone, especially with something as serious as a full blown disorder. What is reality and known however is that W is often exhibiting those traits. Whether its a disorder or not, its not ok. I know I cant link on here but if you search for quiet bpd, its pretty spot on to what I've been experiencing with W. If you look up trauma bond, its very much what I've gone through here. I think I finally broke from it. No going back however I still want to treat W with respect, and compassion as another human and mother of my kids. Before all her trauma or somewhere in her, she probably acted like my D4 or S whom are wonderful.
Unchien said before I'm a few paces behind him. It seems more true everyday.
H37, W37 D4, S2 ILYBNILWY 9/19 BD 9/19 EA discovered 10/19 Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated