Hey U, hope you're continuing to kick A despite the circumstances. I was recommended the book "Splitting" to help with high conflict divorces. Its mainly for spouses with NPD or BPD, which at times many WWs seem to fit the mold. Whether theyve the conditions or not. Anyway, as I read through it, I see our sitchs left and right and got me thinking about you. It could be worth looking in to if you want a few answers. Where you are in the process it may not be as helpful but still an interesting read.


H37, W37
D4, S2
ILYBNILWY 9/19
BD 9/19
EA discovered 10/19
Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated