She did tell her dad, and he said (2 days later) "D13 told me about your grandmother. I'm sorry". I just said "I'm fine" and then kept folding clothes. He said "well, if you're going to be like that, I won't say anything next time", to which I replied "Ok". I know the reaction was wrong. But all I could think was how he reacted when my father died (which was a shrug o the shoulders) and I didn't want to break down in front of him.
Wow. It really is all about him, isn't it?
My IC (also my H's IC) said H is "ego-driven" and I'm wondering if that can describe your H as well?
I'm glad you booked the week in Croatia. When do you leave? (Or for Ibiza???)
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
