Steve85 - yes, I see his is trying to manipulate me to get what he wants.
Right now he states he will not touch the equity in my home $80k - that is if I just let him have the $24k in the broker acct. In addition he is buying my son's car - which he 100% does not have to do.
In his mind everything has been divided - except our retirement accounts. Therefore his words "to have my atty get him a number". NOW, granted if he doesn't like that number he may bail on everything.... but that just means we have to start over again... I'm sure he really doesn't want that. He just wants his money.
I should have 100% not dealt with it today. I told myself to put it to bed for 3 days... So you are 100% right to call me ot on stirring the pot.
I'm on a pendulum swing with one moment wanting to do NOTHING and the next to get all the paperwork aligned to be done.
