I’m confused. I not once in my divorce process had to ask for documents from my ex. The lawyers handled that.
Why are you asking for them again?
Because right now he is verbally favoring me $$$$ in divorce.
If this goes before a judge or he has to get atty.... he will make it so I lose my home.
Of course I recognize this as PURE manipulation on his part. AND, I will agree to nothing that my atty does not approve of - and I will be letting her do all the numbers. And then letting me know if H's offer is the better deal.
But I will not cut off my nose to spite my face - If I walk away $25-50k more??? I have to put up with feeling GROSS I guess.
How can he make you lose your home? He abandoned it. Unless you cannot afford to buy him out of his half of the equity, which it sounds like you can, then you should not be doing anything out of what he says. If he gives you something legal, in writing, then fine.
So let's look at this logically. STBXH is making verbal promises. Then he is failing to provide you with the documentation necessary to fulfill those verbal promises. But you feel compelled to continue to engage him under the guise of saving your house.
If I didn't know better I'd say this is another cleverly devised excuse by KC to remain in contact with her STBXH.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
