Realized I needed additional H's 401k docs as his XW's portion was removed during our M due to paperwork errors. I needed 2 other things as well.
I called. Not the best but H does not like like texts or emails.
Surprised he answered. He was cold. He was grocery shoppping with a guy? IDK. He was pissed to realized that he may owe me another $15k... immediately went to I'm trying to screw him over. He knows exactly what my atty is doing blah blah blah.
I remained calm and let him rant. It took a lot of self control not to yell back "you screwed me over dude... you screwed me out of my financial security and now every time I have to deal with you I have to hear additional threats"... but I said nothing.
He complained that he already filled out this paperwork once. I just responded "you're right you did".
At the end of the convo he asked that I text him what I needed because he wouldn't be able to get to all that until Monday. (I know he wants to prove me wrong about when his XW's stuff was pulled from the account... ) I reminded him that there was no rush on any of this and I knew he would not be able to do it until Monday.
His mood lightened and I ended the call.
BUT I FEEL SO GROSS. Perhaps because I could feel his extreme dislike of me. ALL I can say is that he probably isn't going to happy with the numbers my atty gives him. He is living in fantasy land.
