I have been journaling and noting actions especially. He makes a lot of effort in reaching out to me to talk, or start conversation - which I appreciate - but looking for 'action' (unless that is considered action) - he thought it was. He has scheduled MC for us, and is scheduling IC for himself. We went on a Starbucks run and had a dinner out (with the 16 daughter because it just gets awkward with conversation and such... and a burger dinner on the patio last night with daughter. He will not say I love you, just noting. He has fully cleaned the kitchen on the nights I leave it. He makes efforts to come find me when its late and knows its when I will turn in. We plan to go for a walk/trails this weekend together. He has stopped drinking. He is sharing with a good friend of his, and getting advice....point is, he is talking, thats big for him. He is going to connect to his brother shortly. We are doing a week long fast together... his idea...no idea. I think he wants to have me stress to see if all these changes are for real. (mindreading)
By no means are things great. He is still distant. And I do give him a lot of space still. When I do speak with him, he offers a lot of advice (which I take as a good sign) I see it as a guys way to show caring.
M:50 H:49 D:16 S:13 M:23 T:25 BD: Feb 25th 2020 EA/PA: Dec 2019 - June 11, 2020 Behind every broken woman is a broken man...
