And, job, thank you also! I missed your post the first time because I was typing a reply. I fully expect him to think of an agreement as, Here is my agreement for you, and to get mad if I question anything or ask for something I know I am entitled to. I am going to need to find some additional strength to get through this part. I need everyone to keep reminding me not to let him mess with my mind! I am so tired after a year of keeping up PMA, taking care of the house and pets (which means I can't imagine how exhausted those of you with kids are!), looking for jobs, etc. and I also think the stress of living with an unpredictable, strange roommate is just catching up with me, so my defenses aren't as sharp as they could be. I am not feeling as strong as I'd like to feel. Hopefully I will get some sleep and some of that strength will return.
