I would get a four subject notebook:
section one: questions for your lawyer

section two: Thoughts about what you want and what you will need to make that happen. Cross reference any questions back to section one with post it notes/color coordinated if that helps. You can categorize the colors: health insurance, alimony, house stuff, retirement, social security, etc.

section three: a thorough and honest examination of your core values and beliefs, and how you want to feel when you look back on this chapter of your life. It is important to remember it is only a chapter in a much larger book.

section four: your dreams for the future

I was able to sleep from 3:30-5 then son was at it again. I was grateful to work on a major project in my yard to decompress.

I think i'm channeling this stuff, Cardinal, cuz it has that feel to it as I'm typing. Hope it helps. xoxoxo

PS the one that always kicks my @$$ without fail is "thank you for the lessons" are you fing kidding me? some of these lessons are brutal. ready for the lessons that I can get an easy A in ... anytime now, please.

Last edited by bttrfly; 07/16/20 06:47 PM.
M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver