Are you suddenly expecting him to be friendly and cooperative? Why would you expect that? He continues the exact same behavior pattern and you continue to act surprised about it.
Except I'm doing exactly what he asked me to do - well, I take that back. What he wants me to do is to write out agreement and go file it myself at the county clerk... yeah, that's a hard a no!!! But, he stated my atty needs to get him a number.
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Sounds to me like you're the one pushing it. All he was pushing for was to get what he thinks is "his" money no strings attached. Are you basing your assumption on his one feeble post to the joint calendar saying he was meeting with a lawyer? Because I think that was nothing more than a passive/aggressive snipe on his part because he saw your L appt. on there.
So the "L" appt on his calendar was a legit appt. It was his prior atty and he was taking care of the court docs for child support ending. He may have also been looking for representation by this atty but 1) he would be paying HUGE travel fees because its an hour away from where the case was filed and 2) conflict of interest as this atty represented me in a civil case 10yr ago. So AS you are 100% right... he wanted to stir the pot a bit. Because EVERYTIME he has ever had appt with this atty (sadly numerous over the years) he was listed LAST NAME as the appointment.
But, I never had an L appt on the calendar. I stopped putting that stuff on there.
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It depends. If YOU want to move things forward then tell him right now that you can't use what he sent and to please send something you can use. If you don't want to move things forward then cease and desist. If you want to move this forward then you will have to set "going dark" aside until all the paperwork is done and filed.
I want to bury my head in the sand and pretend all this does not exist. But, I can't walk away from a settlement that may be incredibly in my favor.
But, I like the "I can't use what you sent" line... gonna use that!
I have the next 3 days off for a family reunion. I am just going to focus on that. If needed will tackle this next week.
