Originally Posted by KitCat
I texted him that I sent docs to him for the car/suv and I need the same in regards to his truck.

So I got a screen shot of the KBB and while I can see a number valuation there is no identifier as to what vehicle its for... and I did not get a statement on what is owed on his truck.

Why??? Why not give me both items via email so its complete information???


Are you suddenly expecting him to be friendly and cooperative? Why would you expect that? He continues the exact same behavior pattern and you continue to act surprised about it.

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I'm like "whatever" because clearly I can't do paperwork if he isn't providing the proper docs. But, he is the one pushing for this so why is he being so uncooperative???


Sounds to me like you're the one pushing it. All he was pushing for was to get what he thinks is "his" money no strings attached. Are you basing your assumption on his one feeble post to the joint calendar saying he was meeting with a lawyer? Because I think that was nothing more than a passive/aggressive snipe on his part because he saw your L appt. on there.

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So - I suppose the best course of action is to give it a few days and make the request again? OR do I text him again tonight stating what is needed again?


It depends. If YOU want to move things forward then tell him right now that you can't use what he sent and to please send something you can use. If you don't want to move things forward then cease and desist. If you want to move this forward then you will have to set "going dark" aside until all the paperwork is done and filed.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57