Thanks a lot for your comments. Could you elaborate a bit more on getting emotionally stronger? Is this linked to self confidence and self esteem or is it something different?
Yes they are definitely linked together. You can't let her words phase you. You have to get to a place where you don't care what the fuch she says or thinks about you. There are over 3 billion other women in this world.
Originally Posted by Pack_19
I have set goals for me on all physical, emotional, spiritual and intellectual levels but in the back of my head I always had the hope for R. Starting today I will do my best to implement these:
> Prepare for the worst, accept my M is over and talk to other women
> Work on detachment
> Stop talking to W unless it is about the kids
> Start to GAL for real with no expectations
This is all good!
Originally Posted by Pack_19
I dont think I am wonderful. I am a caring person, I try to stay fit and healthy, I love my children and I think I am a good father, I am fun to be with, I can keep a good conversation and I have a great job where I feel appreciated, I am not superman but she is treating me like a rock who does not deserve a word from her. W can justify all her behavior by saying well I dont love you so what were you expecting and meanwhile I am deeply stuck in that fairytale of for better or worse... I am so pathetic!
You're not pathetic. Your a good man who loves his family and wants to keep it together. Unfortunately there is so much more involved with attraction and listening skills etc. You have to let her go to get her back.
