Ovr, telling my D she isnt nice because she spilled while trying to pour a gallon of milk is what scares me. She could hear my W, she didnt ignore her.
Nothing to get scared about.
You said that you D4 told your W "I got distracted" after being told to pay attention by your W.
Like you said, it happens, but I would have disciplined the same as your W.
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Is it actually possible to completely turn that off?
Well, you turned it on with your internal discourse, so I do believe you can turn it off. I've been reading the Meditations of Marcus Aurelius, but started with The Inner Citadel. Great stuff for situations like this.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
