**************************************************************************************** RECAP: H37 Me 36 (very soon to be 37) T 7 M 3 D16 - H's from a previous relationship D17 - mine from a previous relationship EA started in mid Oct 2019 went to PA in late December 2019 Mid January 2020 H planned to leave MR for life with OW OW left H Mid Feb 2020 back to her long term BF stating she "was never in this the way he was" Early March 2020 H said he was still leaving regardless of OW there's nothing left in this marriage for him Mid-March 2020 Covid happened and H was trapped here. April 2020 D16 left our home for some time because of the A among other things, recently returned to 50/50
Over the last 6 weeks or so H has been leaning in more than ever. Taking me places as his wife. Check ins during the day as he's essential and I'm wfh. Making plans for the family. Sweet, doting H has returned, albeit tentatively. No more phone hiding. No more sulking. No more anger. Hair back to the way it was prior to the A starting. He's working out like a normal human person again instead of killing himself with 2 a days. Eating like he actually likes food again. And I am pursuing my masters. Making time for myself. Making time to spend with my friends virtually and outside. Spending lots of time with my grandparents and my kids. Hopefully reducing my antidepressants later this year. Working through a lot to be the best me I can.
