Yes, he is the golden boy. The oldest, the achieve, absolutely the golden boy in every sense. (And I know I'm the golden girl too, so that probably plays into my inability to believe what is happening right now.)
I know that both his parents and his brother are telling him to ditch the OW and recommit to the M. His mom and dad are both having a really hard time with the fact that he has done this.
He's had really difficult things happen in his life and he's been really amazing in how he has handled it. it is one of the things I fell in love with about him, and has strengthened me throughout our R. He's been able to turn terrible injury into something positive. I guess the difference is a human being (me) saying no to him vs. fate/god/life/whatever.... but he can totally handle life saying no to him. Just not me.
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
