Scout, Hope, I'm not sure how much of my reluctance is fear that he'll be "better" with the OW. I think this is part of my non-detachment showing, or my possessiveness talking, but I don't actually care if their R is total $hit on the inside or not. I just don't want it to BE. Is that weird?
NO. The fact that you don’t want your husband to be in any kind of relationship of any kind or of any quality with another woman is SO NOT WEIRD. Not to me anyway. I feel the exact same way, even now. I am trying SO HARD not to feel that way, but I do.
