Living with a WAS/MLC husband...who does not care

[BlueSea]

LH - Duly noted, and I am on point standing back and watching, taking note, pulling back, waiting.

Steve - from your thread,

As long as a W is working at the MR then it can survive. But the minute a W gives up on the MR, she is ready to move on (in a lot of cases, not in all obviously), and the MR is in real trouble when the W gives up.

This is so true, I know it. And its happening, and with my letting go - it ALL goes. I have become impatient, and suspicious, probably wrongly assuming that he should know he should be doing more. How do you know when its time to move on or there is still life left in the marriage?