I got an extremely nice text from my ex today letting me know that she and the wonderful guy that she has known since the Wuhan Flu hit our shores are now engaged. I have been made aware that she is very happy and that he is very good to his daughter and also to my 3 kids.
I am struck by your calling her text "extremely nice" and the guy as someone who is "very good" to his kids.
Those are part of a false narrative.
How can anyone be considered nice or good when they have destroyed their families?
Or when they decide to marry someone who they have known for less than 6 months?
The idea that anyone would reject you is so astonishing to me, it helps me to understand my own sitch better, that if it's not about you, so obviously, it must not be about me either.
But I'm with bttrfly on the rejection and on whether or not this thing will actually happen, let alone last. People need to legitimize things in an effort to get rid of the promptings of the Holy Spirit. Mine called the OW "my secret other wife" as her text name. (Which was nice to discover the day I came home from my mastectomy.)
You still inspire me with your devotion to God and your faith in His plan.
Lots of love to you, whether or not this round hurts for real or in a detached way.
Last edited by Gerda; 07/14/2002:05 PM.
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
