I said, I'm not telling you to do this. I'm just telling you what I need in order to go.
Well said.
Originally Posted by may22
That he knows I have trust issues with him and he has trust issues with our future. But he doesn't like being treated like a child and I can either trust him now, or not.
It's like, "Trust is earned. I don't trust you that far, based on some of your recent choices, but I'm open to rebuilding trust. You'd have to be transparent for awhile. Show me. Don't tell me."
It's silly comparing verification to childishness. Loan officers verify when extending credit. The last time I hired a housecleaner I verified her references, and she verified my payment info.
