Meant to edit the "regular exchanges all day" part but missed the window-- upon reflection, he seems down. Quiet, sleeping a lot, a little crabby. He hasn't said anything about feeling sad though and I haven't worried about it-- just did my thing and had a good day.
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing