Before acting, you should consider how much action will actually change your life? My wife filed for divorce a few months ago and I am only a few months away from the big day. But I feel like the filing itself has had zero impact on my life. She also moved out after I told her that she should. That conversation did have an impact on my life.
With that in mind, what action are you taking that will have an impact? If it isn't going to change anything, why bother? As for talking, I cannot see that having a positive impact.
