Are her actions a reflection of her words? She’s not doing any of those things.
So out of the blue?!? Come on now. You are giving yourself excuses.
If you aren’t ready, don’t do it. I can almost guarantee she’s going to say “ give me time” and you’ll say ok. And not a thing will change. She will throw something to keep you on the hook to keep her cushy lifestyle and nothing will change.
And you have to be ok with that to come out on the other end. You’ll have to be ok living as roommates and atoooing the snooping and her snide remarks. You’ll have to get so much stronger.
