I’m brand new to the whole thing but wanted to jump in here. Been having these same thoughts about my WW. Am I waiting for her to snap out of this fog or was the fog who she was pretending to be with me and this is who she really was the whole time. Have I been blind to all this because of how much I love her or is the woman I know still in there some where. Tough question to even ask ourselves and probably impossible to find an answer right now. Perhaps time will tell.
Just wanted to offer another affirmation that you’re not alone at all on the confusion and the sadness. I didn’t think there was anyway anyone could understand how deep this was hurting till I found DR and this site. You’re deffinitley not alone.
Hope you guys are doing okay and hanging in there.