WW post D (Thanks BenB part 4)

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Last Sunday I found a paper from father in-law saying he will give her a advance on heritage and a sum of money.
Not enough to buy an apartment but substantial. My guess is she will just spend it.
However she still owes me like +$1500.

100% let her know that you know and you want your money now before it's gone.

I am considering typing something like:
I would like us to finish the economical parts of the D.
The longer we delay it the harder it will be.
You need to make a decision on the house first because that decides how we split almost everything else.
As things are now we have agreed will not work so I will look at a house on the 9th and if everything looks right I might want to make an offer.
You also owe me X and I saw you got some money from your dad.

Whats your thoughts on sending something like that?

(For others reading I have suggested (and arranged with bank) to buy her share of the house but I can only afford it at about 5-10% below market value.)

I think that would be fine to type. Ginger, I think she's had a couple of months to figure out if she wants to stay or go, at some point she does need to decide. She's had time to make plans to travel abroad but can't figure out if she wants to, or can, buy Mumin out of the house? Sounds stupid to me.