Scout - I looked it up, and potentially this may be true. H is a raging narcissist and after listening to a few podcasts, I probably am the co-dependent half. He is a very clever manipulator - I know this - this is just a 6 month trial that either one of us can back away from. I am getting into IC, and will put this at the top of my list to discuss. Thanks Scout

"A love bomb refers to the form of emotional manipulation in which a person, often a narcissist, “bombs” you with an OTT amount of affection, flattery, gifts, and praise early in the relationship in order to win over your attention for the purpose of being able to control you."

LH - I am very cautious, I dont know if its naiveté or resilience that is driving me right now...but I full on agree with you to tread lightly.


M:50 H:49
D:16 S:13
M:23 T:25
BD: Feb 25th 2020
EA/PA: Dec 2019 - June 11, 2020
Behind every broken woman is a broken man...