unchien, great update. I like your standing up for yourself and you indifference to her bag of tricks. Great 180s there, and you are to be commended.
Unfortunately, D always has been and always will be a financial disaster. Anyway you slice it. Even if you gave in and let her have everything she wants it would still be a net financial loss. It does suck, no doubt about that. But you will come out of this with your head held high, having a great level of respect for yourself, and she will respect you too. Even if she doesn't like you, and if your pocketbook is lighter.
Better to be happy and broke, than miserable and rich.
Onward and upward!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
