One of the things around here is about knowing your core values. And frankly I know mine don't line up with a lot of people around here, but my core, who I am is a mother. I've always been. And my girls no matter what were coming first. My ego will always take a back seat to what's in their best interest.
resonated with me so, so much. That is who I am, too. I'm a mom. it is the core of my identity. (And probably part of why I stopped really being interested in my H for so long, too... but that is in the past.)
I'm happy for you, WF. I want a peaceful quiet place of my own.
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
