I wonder if any of us who have gone through the trauma of infidelity on the LBS side can ever recapture that innocence/trust/blind faith that your S will always be there no matter what in any new M, either with a new S or through R with your WAS. Is it even possible to ever go back to 100% blind trust even with a new partner? And/or, is that not really something we should strive for anyway-- there is value in not taking our partners for granted and always working to be the best ourselves we can be?
Interested to know what people think, either those who have Red or who have moved on to new relationships with new partners.
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Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
