Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by Steve85
The feeling is mostly gone now. My W had an accident around the house (minor but painful) so I sprung into H action. This is a 180 for me. In the past I would have told her to shake it off. You know locker room, "get back out there" kind of stuff. But I am past that now. So I fixed I helped her with treatment, and then fixed what caused her accident. One of the things my W has always expressed is wanting to feel taken care of, so I am glad I can accommodate that now after years of the "buck up" mentality.

So I think I am confused Steve. Did this cause you to have feeling of doubt?


No this caused me to jump into action, and therefore the feeling subsided and hasn't been back since.

Last edited by Steve85; 07/09/20 01:42 PM.

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