I found your update yesterday a very interesting read btw..
Random question - Does your wife know about this site. You contribute to a lot of the posts, and often in great detail. This must take up a considerable amount of time. I know the general rule is we keep this site away from partners etc and its a place to focus on you - But your sitch is different in that you reconciled, and unlike many others who either reconcile or move on, you are still here and , you contribute daily to most active posts. Just curious as to if you wife knows the extent to at which you help others really.
Yes and no.
She has seen it on my browser. Whether she has ever visited here or not I am not sure. I do not think she has. Because she has seen it she does know that I am active here. It was probably a good year, year-and-a-half before she discovered this site on my browser.
The no is because I do not think she knows the extent that I try to help others here. Maybe she does if she ever visited, but she has never said anything to me. What I can say is that the information around my own sitch are things she pretty much already knows. We have had a lot of discussions in the months since we started Ring and piecing, about many of the things I post here in my own sitch. She was very instrumental in the progress with my D. She scheduled therapy sessions for the three of us, she had discussions with my D about how she needed to let go of how I used to be and to give me another chance.
So yes, she knows I spend time here. But I do not know to the extent she has read things here.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
