Hi, Wayfarer. It's good to hear that your H is focusing on his relationship with the kids on his own. It seems like a good sign that there's some repair happening there no matter what. DnJ and IW's threads always help me take a breath and put things in perspective. Things here feel pretty zen too. You are simply standing in your beliefs, and, as may said, seeing things clearly for what they are. I love what you wrote on IW's thread:
Originally Posted by wayfarer
I find peace in sitting still and letting this unfold naturally without my influence or interference when I read your words.