Hi KitCat,

Originally Posted by KitCat
H literally said -- I needed to give him back $2200 of the $6800 I took out of joint accts. He was whining and carrying on about it.

Well, you know the simple solution. Stop chatting with him. I thought you were going to stay NC, have your attorney draft that settlement agreement, and then send it to him to sign.

Originally Posted by KitCat
So why in the world if he doesn't lawyer up and isn't paying a dime would he insist I bypass my Atty???

To come out ahead? To reduce costs? He's a lying cheater, so it's also within the realm of possibility he is speaking to an attorney, and the calendar business was a fake-out to trick you.

Originally Posted by KitCat
it will go through my atty and will be filed by my Atty.

That's smart and great.