His last words to me... email your atty and get me a settlement offer. So why when I do exactly that and had to ask for some documents he gets upset telling me I don't ever listen to him but that's okay he's used to me ignoring him by now.
He just needs to justify to himself that this is exactly why he is do this to give himself some relief from the guilt
Originally Posted by KitCat
I'm sure LH will interpret for me.
I'm should start charging for my services lol
Originally Posted by KitCat
I'm glad I can finally see that the ONLY thing I can do that is not going to be percieved as controlling and manipulating is doing nothing... sigh.
By George I think she's got it lol
Originally Posted by KitCat
I gathering docs and contacting atty to get the S agreement going. His verbal agreement does appear to favor me greatly. So it would be dumb for me to drag out and have him change his mind. Don't worry my atty will need to approve of everything.
I agree. Use his guilt and strike when the iron is hot. I got a sweet deal because on my ex's guilt
Originally Posted by KitCat
H is getting resentful that he is paying for timeshare (he bought it) and S18 car. His truck need $$$$ work. Stated if he had $700 more a month he could buy a new truck or could have bought a bigger house.
Poor baby
Originally Posted by KitCat
Of course I'm thinking... well if you were with a woman with higher earning potential you could have had all that... wait you did... you had a bigger house and I told him to go buy the truck he wanted.
He still wouldn't have been happy
Originally Posted by KitCat
Maybe he is seeing a tiny bit of the grass isnt greener... but I understand I'm still being blamed for that.
Too soon. Not yet. But nice try!
Originally Posted by KitCat
In need to write out over and over.... do nothing... do nothing... anything you do is seen as controlling and manipulating him. Let him go... let him go...
