Get a lawyer. I think you would be nuttier than a squirrel to agree to assisting her with heatlh care. That is cake eating 101. "I want a D, but I want the benefit of being married to you."
I have a lawyer. We have to do the separation maintenance/agreement through SC. There is not separation in SC. So, you do this and submit it to family court after you have agreed to the terms set inside. Then, after 1 year, you can simply file divorce based off of agreed agreement.. I am not going to pay for her health care, and I have told her that. I will pay for my daughters until she is 26/college due to it being Tricare.. Yes, you do pay for health care, about 180 a month for the adult program. For the wife, she will stay on Tricare till we divorce( I cant drop her from Tricare unless divorced, its the law), of which will be right after we file the separation agreement. I say that, because my lawyer said it takes 3 to 5 months to file here, and we can piggy back the divorce on it, as it will be past a year when the judge/court sees it. I figure divorce will happen by Nov/Dec this year.
