I would not have told him the three things that are a must for reconciliation, that was meant to be the baseline. Not a big deal but most advice here is not to be shared.
I have to be honest I am very skeptical right now but we shall see. He has a really lot of work to do on his end and time will tell if he’s up to it.
Give him space to sit with his feelings and see if he pursues an IC appointment on his own.
