H made a comment about my family not liking him. I told him that wasn't true. I mean my family has my back. I was at am extreme low point and my mom kind of came in and took over by pressuring an atty, making the appt, making the call to start paperwork. I was so non-functional shortly after BD.
He stated my mom was why we couldn't work this out/be together. My mom did do something some time ago that I wish she had not. It was crossing a boundary. I was not happy she did it. I understand why she did it and its pointless to lay blame on any one party.
This happened 4yr ago?
H stated my mom couldn't mind her own business and I tried to laugh by saying "now you know where I get it from" But, he was right. That should have never happened.
If he was thinking recon - would that really weigh heavily??? I only have my perception of the event and I'm trying to see it from his side. Would that incident from 4yr ago truly be a reason we couldn't salvage our M? I mean he brought it up after all this time like it was yesterday so it must have deeply hurt him or he sees it a huge red flag.
I don't know.
No. Just no. After all this time you are still believing anything that comes out of his lying mouth. Digging up the past. Rewriting history. Changing the narrative to excuse their own behavior. All behaviors of lying cheaters. Read any sitch here and you will see the same things going on. Don't fall for it.
He married you, not your mom.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
But, he was right. That should have never happened.