[quote=CWarrior]Trust me I will do nothing, sign nothing without my atty. But, what he is wanting settled seriously benefits me greatly.
If your attorney believes this settlement is better than the law entitles you to, that's wonderful!
If this is only better than your ex convinced you you're entitled to (his belief vs. the law's belief on shared monies), or ties up your potential liquidity into his home, slow down. I only put those caveats in there to help you consider other angles. I suspect your attorney will give you a good rundown if you ask. My attorney usually needs a couple of days to assess a written offer. When your H displays anger, you tend to want to release the discomfort you feel, and in the past that sometimes meant doing things not best for you.
