After some serious soul searching last night I've decided to move forward and reach a settlement with my H.
I am sorry KK but you are trying to BS us here. You are looking for a reason to pursue. Look at me over here H. I am freeing up your money! Look at me!
Originally Posted by KitCat
This is a separation settlement and it frees up the financial order. I will not move it to D at this time. I need some peace and I need to stop my fairytale.
Ok. So when this doesn't work what is your next play?
Originally Posted by KitCat
LH is right. There is just a lot of anger --- anger for things I did, anger for things I didn't do and anger for the things he did because of it all. He isn't ready to let go of that anger, but I am.
So you think this will dissipate the anger? This is going to sound really mean but they are going to get a good laugh about this move on your part.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I've reached a point where I can see a big chunk of my mistakes... certainly not all as I'm still working through it all but I'm at point where I can apologize with sincerity and mean it and know I can do better moving forward. I'm not sure I'm about forgiveness yet. I suppose that comes much later.
I think you better wait on that apology because I think the obituary and FB postings are just the beginning based on his past history.
KK I am not against you giving him the money that is rightfully his just do it right now based on your urge to try to do something. You will surely regret it down the road.
