So you were ow with his first W and were engaged before he was D?
Yep. Just like in the Justin Timberlake song.
I had nothing to do with his first marriage ending.
We met months after his legal separation. I was under the impression he was D. I believe there had been dating with both of them. I didn't go out with him after our first date for nearly 6 weeks. Its complicated. What I saw was a man being railroaded and his kids with held. He will tell anyone even now that I was crucial in helping him understand his rights and how he was being abused when it came to his kids.
He proposed after 5 months of dating and he moved in 4mo before his D was final. I'm not proud of that now. I did not break up his M, that was already done. I do believe my H's narrative of the M because I was witness to on going issues for 10yr. It was 10yr of her with holding his kids repeatedly for months at a time (the atty file folder is HUGE.)
Anyway, with that being said. I know my H. I suppose that's why my heart breaks so much.
